Isn’t a Coincidence
Isn’t a Coincidence
by Victor E Gomez
How many things in your life are "Coincidences"? Can you measure them? Are you aware of them?
It had happened to me (I know that to you as well) that we "wish" to have more Coincidence in our present. One of the essential truths about Leadership is the "intentionality" behind each behavior and strategy to improve our people. Things would not happen just because we want them to happen; they will happen because there are behaviors and choices that we are making today with that unique intention. Choices are so standard in many people's lives that sometimes they overestimate them; please Do not!
Let me share with you some self-disclosure about how choices may lead your way if you are intentionally clear about where you are heading. When I was a child (6th Grade), I purposely asked permission at my School to preach the gospel to my peers in my classroom. I still remember the School Principal asking me what type of messages I would like to share, how I would like to do it, and so on; the truth is that I was "technically unprepared" for such a weekly task, but I was overwhelmed by the passion of share the gospel at my age. I decided to start doing it during our lunch break, and it became a real thing at School. Little by little, I was building a reputation among my peers for my faith and personal choices. Today each one of them respects me for who I am and because of what I did.
Life is the fight between who we are and what we are doing now! Let me ask you, Does your current behavior reflects indeed who you are? If the answer to this question is no, I would like to invite you (for free) to chat! It is not a coincidence that you are not where you are expecting to be if who you are is not aligned with what you are doing! Before we launch a whole series about Leadership, let's resume one thing: If you can't lead yourself, you are not ready to guide anyone else. Are you prepared to teach yourself? Are you willing to fix your attitude towards the challenges you have ahead? Are you willing to build a unique code of ethics that will uphold your career, family relationships, and parenting? Are you tired of not having enough self-confidence to step out of your comfort zone and change some old bad habits to rebuild a new person capable of so much more?
